My Composite Thoughts: Females & Dating

A few months ago, my real good friend John and I taped a video for a new project we were starting under the title of my Composite Thoughts, however, we never did another one--but we will be starting up again. In our first video, John spoke about date etiquette from the male perspective and right now I'm going to talk about dating from the female perspective. I admit, I'm no dating pro, but I've been on enough to know exactly what the most important stuff is.

First, women we must dress to impress, meaning sex up your look. Let me explain, sexing up your look doesn't mean you'll have on a shirt that shows all your breasts or makes guys want to say hello to your kitty, but, this does mean you leave him desiring you--pretty dress, a cute tank and jeans, something of the sort to show you took a little effort in your appearance. I suggest you find balance as well--don't do real tight jeans and a real tight shirt, how about tight jeans and a lose shirt or something of the sort.

Tip number two, be grateful. With the way we live now, with people wanting to "kick it" instead of actually going out on a date, you should show that it was a nice gesture by your acceptance towards the date this means a few key things:

1. Don't order the most expensive thing on the menu because that could easily lead to this being your last date.
2. Don't try to be overly cute and eat your food.
3. The last and most obvious is to say thank you! duh.

Tip number three, don't pay. I know if a man is reading this he'll possibly say something smart here, but if he does (if you do) you're not worth dating. As John mentioned in the video, a real gentleman will pay the first date and the follow up date-- up to three dates. In the future contrary to popular woman beliefs or whatever the case may be, I believe the lady should court the bill sometimes. Yes, it would be nice if the guy paid all the time, however, in our economy that's very unrealistic.

Tip number four, keep up the conversation. One of the fastest things that kills a date is the conversation, this means, keep it up. I suggest like John, avoid Religion, Money, or Sex. If sex comes up to early in the conversation, it will make you look easy or like what Nelly Furtado sung about in "Promisicius Girl." Instead, opt for topics that really allow you the opportunity to really get to know the guy examples: music, goals for the future, favorite movie, family values and etc.

Lastly, my final tip. Ready? NO ELBOWS ON THE FUCKING TABLE! Make it appear you have some manners, even if you don't.